Date

April 30, 2020

  • The Last Journey
  • Message by relatives

The Last Journey

Message and Prayer (Recording)

Sayadaw U Ottara Nyana likened the pandemic as the 21st Century World War against an invisible enemy.

Memories by Ye Lay (Live)

Pe Pe Ko Chit Tae“. [ I love Dad]

Ye Lay thanked his father Peter for the wonderful things that he had learned. In particular, the chanting “I take refuge in the Triple Gems”. He recited to Peter at the hospital.

He sang an old Scottish ballad “Loch Lomond“. He remembered Peter taking Chan Myei Sayadaw to Loch Lomond.

By yon bonnie banks and by yon bonnie braes
Where the sun shines bright on Loch Lomond
Where we two have passed so many blithesome days
On the bonnie, bonnie banks of Loch Lomond

[Refrain]
O ye’ll take the high road and I’ll take the low road
And I’ll be in Scotland afore ye
But me and my true love will never meet again
On the bonnie, bonnie banks of Loch Lomond

I mind where we parted on yon shady glen
On the steep, steep side o’ Ben Lomond
Where in purple hue, the Heiland hills we view
And the moon shinin’ out from the gloamin’

Ye Lay studied at St Andrew’s in Scotland for his second Masters. His parents attended his graduation.

He ended by reciting

“Buddham saranam gaccha mi. [I take refuge in the Buddha].
Dhammam saranan gaccha mi. [I take refuge in the Dhamma].
Sangham saranam gaccha mi. [I take refuge in the Sangha].

Memories by Dr. Ye Myint (Recording)

Firstly I would like to thank you all for being here.

Thanks to all those who shared their good memories of my beloved brother. The family appreciates your kind thoughts and prayers.

It is a great honour to be able to share my memories, and talk about my big brother Peter, who will forever remain in our hearts.

My kindhearted brother spent his life caring not only for patients, but relatives, friends and acquaintances. He gave up his life in the line of duty. He will be missed by all.

Peter, my sister and I were very privileged to grow up together in one large family estate. We were very close sharing the same room and being together daily.

He set a high bar for us intellectually and socially. Due to his high intellect, he got double promotion twice and skipped 2 years.

He matriculated with four distinctions. He stood 23rd in the whole of Burma and was awarded a University Scholarship. He was admitted to the Rangoon University of Medicine, which I also attended. He supported me to become a good compassionate doctor like himself.

He stayed fit by taking part in many sports : football, badminton, cycling and rowing. He was the university selected athlete for Shot put and Discus throwing.

He started cooking as a teenager and learnt many recipes from our mother and continued this lifelong hobby. He was a very good artist and created large paintings as well as water coloured Christmas cards. He was also a very keen gardener and read various books. He had great general knowledge and many called him a walking encyclopaedia.

After he qualified as a doctor, he worked as a UNICEF research officer for mother and child health in Hlegu where he met his future wife Ma Win Mar. After they fell in love he decided to move to Mezligone. I accompanied him on this trip there and helped to set up a new medical clinic. He worked there daily for 11 years where he was relied upon by his patients even out of hours.

I sponsored him to move to UK in 1994 to help progress his medical career. He lived with us until he got his first job in Burton-on-Trent. He got his second job in Pontefract and arranged for his family to relocate to the UK to join him. We were lucky to live only 20 minutes drive away so had nice weekly reunions which made our families even closer.

He then moved to London for rehabilitation medicine training after he passed his MRCP examinations and then moved to Reading 21 years ago working as an associate specialist. Peter has helped many Doctors coming to the UK for further studies where he gave valuable advice and treated them to his home cooking. He always enjoyed entertaining and cooking for family and friends.

We had regular family reunions and memorable family holidays together in Devon, Italy, Burma and most recently in New Zealand. We will cherish these lovely memories together. He had such a great sense of humour and always made those around him happy with his personality and big smiles. He was remarkable in many different ways. He lived an enjoyable successful life and treated all family members, relatives and friends with loving kindness. He touched so many people as evident by the countless tributes, messages, cards and donations.

I am sure you are in a much better place, Ko Ko, after doing so many good deeds throughout your life. We will miss you greatly and always remember you with love. Thank you so much for being a loving big brother, a great Uncle to Aye Sanda, a best friend, mentor and teacher.

Lighting six candles followed by Reflection

Six candles were lit :
One for Peter
Three for attendees of the service near and far
One for Doctors and Nurses
One for people around the world

All stood up for a moment of Reflection.

Reflection following the Candle Lighting

Memories of Min Ko

Min Ko shared Dr. Peter’s wonderful, precious life in Meizaligone, a village in Henzada District, Irrawaddy Division.

Since the clinic was at the house, the family members were woken up early by villagers lining up to get water from the tube well.

Peter’s clinic opened from 6AM to late at night seven days a week.

Peter treated sick villagers with CETANA, some free of charge, and some were given cash assistance to go to Hospital in Big Towns.

Once a month Peter invited neighbors to have meals in the house.

Peter had an old car and learned how to do repairs.

Min Ko then read a letter written to his father and had to pause occasionally to wipe the tears. He promised to take care of the family.

Song before closing the curtain

What a wonderful world” by Louis Armstrong

Message by relatives

Dr. Myo Tint (uncle) wrote :

Dear Win Mar, Min Ko and Ye Lay,

The Funeral Service. was very touching.
The speeches bring out what a wonderful, philanthropic, generous, well learned gentleman Peter was.
May he Rest In Peace.

Ma Kay (cousin) wrote :

Very touching speeches Ko Ye Myint and Min Ko

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